How much time do you need from your partner for a happy relationship? Will my partner be as successful? Actually we should not ask ourselves that. May we not all the success of our partners? The only question which arises in this context is the following: how much time and energy can devour this success? Feels is one of the partners soon as the focal point for eating, sleeping and change of dress, as a pit stop, so to speak. If so, the price of the success is already very high and he will partner with paid. Only if he just put much time and energy in his work, no imbalance, but the risk of losing a pair alone due to time constraints from the eyes. One but is back and wait in the evening disappointed on the other, he will soon no longer so warmly received, as yet at the beginning of the relationship.
There a DIS balance, perhaps even to allegations that at least but too bad mood. This causes not seldom that the anyway already hard-working at night any longer in the Office remains because he there reaping recognition and blame for his efforts. All of this has nothing to do with fairness or logic. And yet, the cat at this point in the tail biting. The more often he disappointed at home is waiting for one, the relationship mood is worse, and all the lustloser you turn comes home.
It insidiously soon deteriorated all evening meeting. The waiting partner draws conclusions which are essential under certain circumstances. Not rarely the idea derives from the fact that man more games no important role in the life of the party, because the more important takes everything that has to do with his work, as the relationship. All this is often insidious, downright unremarkable. Speak in a timely and open about how much time you needed from your partner to feel comfortable in the relationship. Select evenings where you meet early and treat these appointments with the same weight and reliability such as dates in the Office. See also flexible if it cannot works, because the profession does not always regard for personal needs. But keep a close eye on the overtime situation, because escalated faster than you think. Disappointment also provides faster than it is. At some point the partner then waits for not being more patient or impatient at home. Notice only if the relationship breaks down a lot, how much she would have been worth to them and that neither recognition nor success are a substitute for love. Dagmar Tan